To be honest, I don't have a solid choice in this matter. However, I did went over the benefits of the merge and other discussions we previously had about it. While I'm still in the middle of this whole merge process (believe it or not), it doesn't prevent me from seeing everyone's point of view especially the majority who wants the merge including Teletraan-1 wikia. At the same time, I also take the views of those who don't want the merge into consideration despite the less amount of users who don't want the merge on the poll. Some of my solutions included having a final poll but seeing how you and some other users might have a problem with that, I was thinking about having some sort of discussion for users who don't want the merge. Here they can address the problems that they might have and the admin from Teletraan-1 or you can explain to them more about the merge like how you both did for me. Would that work for you and the admin of Teletraan-1?
Feel free to create a discussions/forum post where users can give their different opinions and ideas on the merge. However, it's pretty clear now that the merge is going to happen and will happen soon, as the majority of users have been waiting several months for their wishes to be fulfilled.